Teenage Girls Breaking Stereotypes

One of the parallel events organized by CSW62 was titled, "Rights, Voice, Dreams, and Friendship: How Teenage Girls Achieve Empowerment". A group of teenage girls from Chechnia and the leaders of the organization Young Women Development Program (YWDP) came to share their experience,  challenges and the changes they bring.

The girls have presented how hard it is to live in their hierarchical and patriarchal culture, where women do not have enough voice to express their needs, where young girls cannot stand up for themselves. The girls shared how hard it was for them to live in their culture, be accepted by the society while trying to develop their own careers.

One of the girls said: "I am blessed to have the right family, where the education is valued. My parents motivated me to pay attention to my future and seek a degree. Unfortunately, not a lot of girls are as fortunate as I am. A lot of them, especially those living in the rural areas, even do not finish their school. They drop it and get married since it is what the society and family expect them to do. It is hard to go against this cultural mentality. People may not understand you in the right way. That's why it is important to have supportive individuals next to you".

Another adolescent girl shared her challenges when she wanted to pursue a degree in the department of architecture. She said: "All the teachers, professors, classmates, men I knew were telling me that I had a very bad idea and should not pursue a degree in it. All of them were saying that the profession of an architect was not for women and that I would not be able to find a job in the future. However, with the help of YWDG, I could improve my self-esteem, believe in my skills and abilities and follow the call of my heart. As a result, I am in the second year of the department of architecture and I believe that I will be a good architect."

The organization has carried out a number of projects, worked with a number of girls, and made a great amount of impact on the lives of a lot of teenagers. It was breathtaking to hear how women are helping, motivating and inspiring each other to raise, fight for their rights and dreams, and be empowered."

Addressing Sexuality to end Child Marriage

There is an important need to talk openly about sexuality and how it relates to child marriage, how sexuality is closely linked to gender roles and how understanding and addressing this link can help achieve sustainable development goal number 5, Gender Equality. Many have claimed that “talking abut sexuality” is a “personal matter” and not one that is discussed in the public eye, particularly in certain cultural context. However, the United Nations has been talking about sexuality for over 20 years, in negotiation rooms and spaces dealing with women’s health and other important issues. The panelist in the session Why Addressing the control of sexuality is critical to ending child marriage? address the topic with a cultural, social and professional lens noting the values and norms and how it relates to complex women’s issues. The idea that in order to address practices such as child or forced marriage, girls and boys need to be properly educated in order for them to take control of their own sexuality. The key is in programs that work closely with the community, men, women and most importantly religious leaders. Understanding the use of ‘language’ and how to talk to the community in a way that doesn’t add to the taboo and challenge of speaking openly about sexuality even in “safe spaces”.

Archana Dwivedi, Director of the NGO Nirantar in New Delhi, India stated that sexuality is not an issue it is a perspective, as is gender and we need to find a wholesome way to view those norms in order to understand its construct. Dwivedi goes on to say that, sexuality has no beginning or end point, and is informed by gender and sexuality norms and gender norms are informed by sexuality norms. Research in India mapping early and child marriage found that poverty is linked to gender and sexuality norms, however, many young people are marrying out of their own choices, and young people are concerned about many issues other than sexuality. Gender and sexuality norms are linked, and at the same time are constantly challenged by changing cultural views of gender and sexuality which impact girls much deeper, without losing sight that boys are also affected. Panelist Anthony Keedi noted that, if we continue to look at women as the ones we need to provide for, ones that can not provide for themselves, that creates a perpetual need for paths such as child and forced marriage on a social, cultural and economic basis. The concept of taking control of one’s own sexuality and allowing for that control to be given to women is a step towards eradicating child and forced marriage.

Prevention of Child, Early and Forced Marriage 停止童婚，早婚和强迫婚姻

By  赵霞 (Xia Zhao)， 美国里海大学(Lehigh University)

美国东部时间2015年3月13日下午2点30分，来自土耳其，尼日尼亚和肯尼亚的非政府组织代表于纽约亚美尼亚会展中心就童婚，早婚和强迫婚姻问题做了精彩的报告。各国代表分别阐述了本国法律对童婚，早婚和强迫婚姻的定义。

土耳其代表表示，现今，每四位土耳其女性中就有一位是童婚。其原因主要在于经济条件的限制。 作为一个童婚的幸存者，尼日尼亚代表讲道，童婚摧毁了女性的生活。遗憾的是，尼日尼亚童婚很严重，但目前尚无关于早婚的有效数据调查。

最有意义的是，年轻的肯尼亚代表讲述了自己9岁时反抗父亲早婚安排的故事。父亲以两头牛的价格强迫她嫁给他的老朋友。她逃离父亲的安排，跑到十公里以外的学校向老师寻求帮助。后来她努力学习，成为班上最优秀的学生，最后进入大学学习国际政治。此次报告是她在联合国做的第五次演讲，她成为全村人民的骄傲。如今，她回到自己的村庄，讲述教育带给自己和家人的改变。村庄人民以她为典范，改变了将女孩儿贩卖给他人做童养媳的传统，促进了肯尼亚女童教育的发展和女性地位的提升。